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It was a messy ball of hair and it wasnt mine. In no way is our hair a symbol of defiance or a way to stand out, we are proud to carry traditions of our family and have that amount of respect for our grandparents and ancestors that we deal with the inconvenience of having such long hair. Thanks again ,I really appreciated your honesty and truth. Makes me queezy to think about. Many monks wear very long hair while on dutie. I have lost 5kids 2grand parents and a few dear friends within 10years. Hello Alexandra. My best friend is from there. Yes!!! This does not mean we get to control a persons choice of how they wear there hair. I dont understand..those it mean .keeping hair is powerful? My long hair appears epic, as though I stepped out of the pages of a historical time line! Everyone else compliments it. There are also some cultures, including Native American and many Asian ones, where a person would cut his or her hair as an act of grief, disgrace, or even rebellion. IgnoranceSo it taught me about character in general. We are the last discrimination. I remember when she passed away my grandmother cutting her hair and never letting it grown back out. I wear my hair nature all my life. My God played a trick on my mother, who always had to perm her hair. I grew up military but had no clue how I was and am able to naturally and physically able do and think with the mindset Ive always had. My son passed away almost 6 months ago. I have been researching for many years in the field of combustion culture in Croatia. With long hair I feel more confident than I ever did with short hair, maybe because for the first time ever, Im living as my authentic self. I tell people about you guys and your products every chance I can just to spread the positive vibes. I found it while looking for a book called Bears Braid! So, I the desire to grow my hair back out wasnt a conscious connection with the other process. I have more questions and comments for me it seems that Im honoring God by keeping my hair long and for me its a spiritual mean I cant seem to back this up but anything I can find in the Bible short of the story of Samson I have found it in other religions and in the Native American culture that Ive read in this article I havent cut my hair for 12 years and it doesnt seem that I intend to soon I found that there is a certain amount of discrimination that I run into from time to time and pre-judgment by the length of my hair and not by my own personality and whats inside so for me its a way of somehow determining what peoples intentions might be in their sincerity if Im being judged barely by my hair what sort of person am I dealing with a narrowminded one in my view thanks for all your interesting commentsOh my best so are you from Montana. Im aware of the significance attributed to hair in the native American culture and have been reading about the natural remedies your ancestors have relied on for centuries to nourish and look after that part of their body and soul. He had a fire and some objects that looked like figurines beside him. It felt as something I had to do and thought that everybody will see I was somehow wounded. Depending on that girls past and current life, remember that maybe she may be trying to disconmect, from her world, for unknown reasons, to you. Long hair being one of them. Im native american and have 2 little boys whos hair I have insisted on growing out. I believe so ! I love that I have stumbled upon this article. Now that I am growing it back out, I begin the journey in full understanding of my hair, that ties me to nature and that spiritual wild side, and also with a new perspective on human nature. The most beautiful girl in the world is from South Africa and she keeps short hair. They frequently engaged in war with other tribes until they dissolved shortly before the first settlers came to America. I was wondering why, when I came across this blog post. I keep my knee length braids in honor of the ancestors and for those whom had their hair cut in the residential schools. In this 5 years my intuition, physic abilities, empathy, connection to nature, understanding of spirit, creation & the universe has just continued to rapidly build itself. Hair was often a big part of Celtic culture. Our long hair is believed to connect us to nature and the earth. They merely hid them sometimes. Yes I could look in the mirror and and satisfy my ego as I had the long hair look back. In Educate by El RubioOctober 16, 2016218 Comments. The Sweet Grasses found growing around the World represent the hair of Our Mother, the Earth. I love my hair but I just dont do my hair right I am really mad that I cant get my hair good and brushed good. I still cut my hair in times of great loss and I always do it myself. I feel like the growth process really makes you appreciate your hair and makes it feel rare, and the Viking culture would make a badass article. Chemo messed me up for life with thin hair. I grew up in the metal scene and had short hair at the time and felt out of place. I am proud of the Heritage I belong to and I am proud to try to keep the Traditions alive as long as I can, but however I feel that white man has not given up the discrimination against our people and I fear that they will cut my childrens hair anyways or they will take my rights as a father away. Im of Celtic heritage and hair has been an important part of my culture also. it was well known to do Tonsure. As pertaining to long hair, I have always kept my hair very long, even now I am lucky enough to still have thick beautiful hair, It may not be a popular style but I wont change it. Thanks for writing in, would love to see that picture. I was very surprised how emotionally attached I became to my longer hair when I finally decided to just let it grow! Its good to know there are still real men left in this world. As someone with Celtic heritage (or should I say hairitage,) you should do an article on the Celts and hair. Many cultures around the world, from Native Americans to Sikhs, believe that hair has a special significance. Students Accused of Forcibly Cutting Native American's Long Hair in Class By Ewan Palmer On 3/19/22 at 11:22 AM EDT U.S. When it comes to your friends not mentioning your hair, it reminds me of this: People who mind dont matter, and people who matter dont mind. Awesome to hear BeezyW and great to have you here. I truly started to feel my connection with Mother Earth and The Creator. Your spirit will tell you when, If you dont feel it then you shouldnt do it. This is where it gets interesting for me since reading your article. God bless. Maybe because my genes are of northern/eastern hemisphere. For women its a choice and they are accepted either way. I definitely plan to do a post on the Rastafarians, so stay tuned. Not to be confused with a head wrap meaning tying on brightly colored hemp, twine, rope, or even string, often Ive seen with beads as well!? There is also an Asian law activist group which I cannot remember the name of right now. Ive heard stories of how hair symbolizes honor amongst fellow samuri, and whenever the hair is cut it represents a great loss of honor and respect. Thanks for the book idea and for writing in! Why do Native Americans cut hair after death? When a Native American cuts their hair, the hair is often treated with respect. Every time I had a relationship breakup, invariably I would cut it.still not sure why.now, in my later years I have no time to lose, I began to be true to MYSELFand began to grow my hair out~~~~~~~ It is now 3 feet long from root to tip and I love it!!! ..from others my own agethe comments hear really spoke to memy hair is part of my journey here..connects me to spirit.it is my strength. I find too, that I am more settled in my spirit and I do have Native blood from the Iroquois of New York State. Do you have permission to do so? Its an appeal against their decision and its called an ARTICLE 78. We spend so much time on our outward appearance. For the next 25 years it was long. I hurts me badly when white children are encouraged by their parents to jump in the middle of Native Americans who are dancing. They have several branches throughout the country, they combine state groupings. The scalper firmly grasped the hair of a subdued adversary, made several quick semicircular cuts with a sharp instrument on either side of the area to be taken, and then vigorously yanked at the nearly-severed scalp. I felt it should be their choice and theirs alone whether or not to continue growing their hair and to embrace their heritage. I appreciate your guys thoughts on the matter. Sorry for bad writing. They ate a lot of bison and their horns are made of hair, growing a little bigger every year they aged. I was in a phone store yesterdayand a tall man with black ling braided hair turned around and gave me a few second eye to eye contact. A dear friend died a few days ago. I respect their cultural values, and understand the connection with nature and spirit. Yes, Jesus and his people from Nazareth wore there hair long VERY long, in fact. Despite that Ive still always been fascinated with the Native American way of life and how they learned to live with the planet. We have paid a license fee to use these images on our blog and are not required to give credit. Each time someone passes in my family or dishonor has been placed upon my circle thats the only time I cut my hair and recently the state has taken my children from my ex and so they ask for my permission to have their hairs cut I hope they dont dishonor my request for them to be able to keep their pride. I have Blackfeet from my fathers side and Cherokee and Celtic from my mothers. I am roaming wolf known to many as a person who falls traditional ways and I was taught that are hair symbolizes a form of our pride and the only time you set aside your pride is through death or dishonor. In mind, body, heart and soul I believe I will be lighter and brighter. It is now salt and pepper but I have to say just the experience of having the balls to wear my hair without any fcks given has changed my life. I still struggle daily with self-consciousness about it, because its not thick and flowing like younger folks, but I am really trying to just let the experiment run its course, and maybe Ill even find a reason to let it keep growing. Guess this could explain why my hair was always cut short by my religious mother (and I was mistakenly called Jamie by the neighbour kids when young). She is often depicted wearing a single ostrich feather in her hair. A white girl will flick her long locks when the black girls walk past and then a massive fight will break out. And, correlation not being equal to causation, I cannot factually claim that my longer hair is making me more intuitive than before. So you have to see WHICH section you fall under your state falls under. I believe my son is whose keeping me strong tbh. When someone dies, it can be seen as a way to cut away some of the person's life and make way for a new chapter. I gave birth 4 months ago and me and my baby girl are shedding our hair. When I trust myself through my first instinct-. Personally, I feel judging someone based on the length of their hair is beyond ignorant. After growing it for almost 18 months, in May 2015 my father was killed in a tragic accident. My Hair Is . As a native of Creek Nation, I appreciate your description of what long means to Native Americans. So taking care primarily of ones individual self, not disregarding and aligning with the bigger self which can be called as nature, life, existence, or God is primary for me. The notion that a man may be bewitched by means of the clippings of his hair, the parings of his nails, or any other severed portion of his person is almost world-wide, and attested by evidence too ample . Both my sisters and I graduated college with honors and have hair around or past our hips. Namaste. Long hair is one of many things that contribute to energy, power, intuition, and connection. 2. Native Americans School Hair Oklahoma A school district in. In all ceremonies, drugs and alcohol are strictly. Living in modern day society, and living on that red road. It would be fascinating to interview someone that had taken the vows, and shaved their body to see how they felt doing it and how it affected them. There is a Rastafarian practice or belief is that his head is to be covered by a turban of sorts and the only person that is to be allowed to see his locks is his woman (wife). That afternoon I was sitting in a chair having 24 inches of hair cutoff. we do have Cherokee ancestry and sadly I had no idea how important hair was! I may not have NorthAm Native genes, but my Indigenous relatives & friends easily see my deep-seated witchy/spiritual connections to Gaia, the Spirits & the animals that roam this planet now & in the past. I was told that shaving the hair on the head is a custom observed by the male members of a family where a person has recently died as a mark of respect to the deceased person. I looked up men with long hair and beholdI came across your page. But for some reason since childhood I got really sad when I was pushed to cut my hair. Never again. I walked through the desert and a Native American was there. Old Age If you must pluck out gray hair, don't bother to count them if you don't want any more to be added to them. Thank you for teaching me that. Being a man wearing your hair long truly is a power and spiritual connection that you cant explain only experience. All their people are either pro bono or free when it comes to their services. Many Native Americans strongly resisted the schools' psychological and cultural war on their communities. My mother sent me to have my hair cut routinely. So I did just that. It was a really fun process of having to change up hair styles every 3-4 weeks, in order to keep up with the growth. They swallowed a spoonful of oil. I am sorry to hear about your situation. Amber, thank you for your message. I hate having to cut my hair. Women are also more intuitive during menstruation. My name is Cassaundra Roskowske and it will show that I work with Richmond Vale. Anyway, a few years of trying to compensate with hair extensions (someone elses actual hair attached 24/7 to my head) made things even worse. I v always found hair cuts to be heart breaking but right now i feel nothing short from Yey out with the old drama, in with a new more mature ,me . I found him on a long hair website, was five, and wore long, beautifully epic braids. We held hands. Why u gotta say cleanliness is short hair? So Ive always grown up with the stories and knowledge that native American blood does run in our family, yet I dont know the details or areas and tribes. For Native Americans, long hair equates to POWER, VIRILITY, and PHYSICAL STRENGTH. We, too, Japanese, have long hair warriors. Thank you for bringing this out. Here, we are about to highlight the reasons as to why Hindus shave their head when a family member dies. Why trusting my intuition is power like no other- I just knew, it needed to be done. I have long hair myself. Namaste. My now ex husband is dying of stage 4 colon cancer and is in hospice. I have kept my hair long, below my shoulders even during my 20+ years in the Army. The confrontation was depicted in this cartoon drawing by a reporter named Mr. Zesiler. Thank you , my Grandmother was one of those children. I did it. In many countries, even in Europe, women sell their hair when they need extra money. Im cutting my hair in mourning. If anything I think my intuition and so many other aspects became worse as I had another persons DNA attached to my DNA. Aho. I love this sooo much!! Hi Tejas, I just read your comment and I have been enjoying every single reply. I definitely agree that doing a post on Vikings or perhaps early Picts/Celts or any pre-Roman European tribe would be excellent. I noticed that I lost much of my awareness of what was around me and did not have insight into the people I was with. I am thinking Vikings next! They let their grow long to show that they were devoted to God. Thank you man. One of my main goals in this series is to accurately and respectfully describe the traditions and cultures that we feature, so its great to get positive feedback from you. I dont know of the process the Buddhist monks use to dehair the entire body but I imagine it takes quite a bit of time and effort! Im very proud of my ancestors and heritage and I want them to feel pride in that as well. The AFSC is the first human rights organization in the country, but it is now International. . He had locs in his hair. Who took these pictures? Thank you for writing the article. Please research ceremonial burning of your hair. If you have anything to add, please share in the comments or contact us directly. I think every culture had one point in history where long hairs would be the way to go. Other death rituals include painting a dead person's face red, the colour of life, or washing the body with yucca before burial. That is amazing. Having long hair was always something that was a way that marked us as different from Canadian society, and one of the first things they took from us when they took us. It always felt like keeping my hair very long ment keeping them very close to me. I too connect with the earth via my mother, Aztec is in my blood. I love my culture and trying my best to do good and make it stay alive. One was a dear mentor, training me to take his place in many volunteer programs. Please drop me an email at [emailprotected] and Ill get back to you! I find myself constantly downloading information through my hair. Their beliefs around long hair, as many of their beliefs, are tied to the earth and nature. Every depiction I have ever seen of Christopher Columbus, he has hair down past his ears and neck. There is a way to wear the hair for many ceremonies and dances. Aho! I have a hidden tattoo and my mother had a bad dream about it. So it doesnt make any sense to cut hair, for me, in that sense of being as egoless as possible! My mom harped on me as I turned 20 and married that it was time for my to start wearing my hair short. Our condolences for your loss, Nancy. Native American feather symbolism . I just recently cut the back of my hair in honor of losing my mom,,, I always wore it long in back, it wasnt cut nor even trimmed, Im of native American decent, of the Ojibway nation out here in Minnesota.. My great grandmothers father was native American and migrated to Australia before she was born. 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